As
part of our “Change One Thing Challenge,” NAMS is encouraging women
to choose one change, then make it part of their routine. We
provide simple suggestions for healthy habits or symptom solutions for
a variety of topics. Our readers can simply choose one of our
ideas and make a positive change. It’s that simple. And we guarantee
it’ll be worth the effort. We hope you’ll join us.
This
month, choose one or more of our simple strategies for reducing
stress. Although menopause has not been shown to raise stress levels,
women at midlife face many stressors. Here are a number of coping
strategies:
1. Breathe.
Sounds easy
enough, but deep-breathing exercises can really make a difference
when women take time to follow these easy steps a few times a
day:
- Sit in a chair.
- Rest hands on the
abdomen.
- Slowly count to four while inhaling through the
nose and feel the abdomen rise.
- Hold that breath for a
second.
- Then slowly count to four while exhaling through
the mouth -- let the abdomen slowly fall.
- Repeat this
exercise 5 to 10 times.
2. Take a mini mental
vacation.
Guided imagery can help achieve a state of
deep relaxation. And anyone can do it. Close your eyes and visualize
a scene from your memory that brings joy. Try to get lost in that
“happy place” or event or image for several minutes, allowing
your mind to return to that blissful experience.
3.
Make "me" time.
Sufficient self-care and enjoyable
self-nurturing activities are proven stress relievers. Set aside some
time for yourself every day -- at least 15 to 30 minutes -- and
choose one or more relaxing activities. For example, talk with
friends, enjoy a soothing bath or massage, take a walk, or enroll in an
art class.
4. Set life limits.
Set
realistic limits on what can be accomplished in a specific time
period, like a day or week. There is always another task to do or a
project to accomplish. Realizing that those infinite tasks will
never be completely done is a start. Learn to say “no” and reserve
some time and energy for yourself.
5. Try a new
perspective.
You can change the way you feel in a
stressful situation by changing the way you interpret that situation. This
concept is called "reframing." It is a technique that allows
people to replace an unwanted behavior or bad habit with a better
alternative. For example, instead of becoming impatient while waiting
in a long line at the grocery store, consider that extra time a
well-deserved break from a busy day.